When do you think you find the real in people? When you first meet them? After knowing them for years? Or when something happens out of the routine and you see how the act towards the situation. If they act like the same person you know and love, then you've known the real person for years, but if they are someone completely different then what you expect. Is it better to have never known at all, or is it better to find out and possibly not be as close as you were anymore? Which is better? You're hurt by the second option but you're clueless with the first. So whats it gonna be?